Friday, November 06, 2009

The Boyfriend


Didn't mean to leave y'all hanging. : )

Yes, I now officially have a boyfriend! The above photo was taken on Halloween at a GIANT halloween party at our favorite bar.

His name is Todd, he's 46 and he has a son that is around the same age as FGG. We've been friends for a while and have been casually seeing each other but we'd actually decided that week to just go for it and be exclusive. Definitely one of the best decisions I've made!!

He was the second person I called right after my accident because I couldn't think of anyone else that I wanted there with me. FGG was the first person I called but of course, being a teenager, he didn't realize his phone was ringing so it took me forever to get a hold of him.

Todd's been amazing, making sure I was ok and helping me deal w/ all the insurance crap. I've never had to deal w/ stuff like this before so it has been great having someone to lean on.

He's already met FGG, although we didn't plan on them meeting for a while. He took me to pick up FGG from school after the accident so there wasn't really a choice on them meeting.

And he's met the Pug Princess but she wasn't thrilled to meet him. : ) She doesn't really like strangers and especially anyone who is taking away attention from her, LOL!

I haven't met his son yet, just due to timing issues but he does know about me and he's cool w/ his Dad & I.

Not sure where it's headed but we are serious about each other, the "I love you" thing has been said and I'm deliriously happy!

Aside from the car accident, life is very, very good!!

Monday, November 02, 2009

Mayhem Monday


Actually, my mayhem started Friday afternoon.

I had a car accident!

I'm bit stiff but otherwise ok. My beloved Nissan however is probably totaled. There's at least 5 grand worth of damage. It's a long story involving some idiot causing a chain reaction accident & then taking off but the gist of it is that I got stuck in a truck sandwich. : (

Luckily, my Mom left her car here for FGG to use while they are in Florida. Folks said I could use it until they got back so I didn't have to rush into getting a new car. It kinda sucks for FGG since it leaves him not being able to drive and it keeps us in the same boat of having to work my schedule around picking him up/dropping him off but it does allow me some time to save more money on top of a settlement. Bigger downpayment on a car equals the same or lower car payment than I had so that's always a good thing.

The only good thing about all of this is that I discovered how awesome my circle of friends is.

And I discovered I have a fantastic boyfriend!!

Menu Plan Monday


Flying by the seat of our pants this week since I have a feeling it's going to be a busy one!

Monday - Grilled Strip Steak, Creamed Spinach

Tuesday- Veggie Soup

Wednesday-Polish Sausage, Steamed Green Beans

Thursday-Grilled Pork Steak, Steamed Green Beans

Friday-Frozen Pizza Night

Saturday-On Your Own night

Sunday-Roast Chicken, Scalloped Potatoes

For more great menu ideas, don't forget to take a peek here!

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Purging in a good way

What is it about fall that puts us all into nesting mode?

I'm finally undertaking the GREAT purge of the apartment! Every closet, every drawer, every box. I've been feeling like something is holding me back and I think it's all of the clutter.

You know, the projects I'll get around to, the fabric I'll never use, the clothes I'll probably never wear, etc.

I've ordered a couple of highly recommended clutter busting/organization books that seem to be a better fit for my ADD/Bipolar brain.

Now that I've made the decision to declutter, I'm wondering what to do with some of my better clothing and stuff. I have no desire to Ebay but I'm wondering if I shouldn't do another La Petite Redhead's Closet blog/sale to get rid of the J.Crew/Ann Taylor/Banana Republic stuff. Makeup/Hairstuff I can swap over at Makeupalley. I think everything else that cannot be repurposed will be donated. I'm going to check into what can be donated to our local battered womans shelter and donate everything else to Goodwill.

It's going to be hard, since I am holding onto stuff for the life I envision myself having once my life transformation is complete but really, how many crystal vases does a person need? Especially one who rarely buys fresh flowers. : )

I'm feeling a bit of weight lifted off my shoulders now that I've made the decision to let it go. Once the purge is done, I can focus on organizing my small space, stocking up to take advantage of sales and making my home more "adult" and less like a college students.

Now, if I can just figure out where in this clutter is my energy, I'll be good to go!

And they're off!

The folks have left for the sunshine and warmth of Florida for the next 6 months.

That means 6 months of a moody teenager and pug princess in my face 24/7!

EEEEEEEEKKKKKKKK!

Now you all know I love my kids(Yes, I consider the pug princess my child), but FGG has hit that teenage moody/know-it-all stage and the pug princess now does more whining than a little kid at Toys-R-Us.

Which has driven me batty already this week and it's only Tuesday. : )

I think I'm going to have to come up with some projects to keep me occupied and less likely to go all Richard Heene on them.

Hmmmm, maybe now is a good time to take on the great wintering decluttering project?

As always,

Monday, October 19, 2009

Menu Plan Monday


Sorry I'm late for posting this. I'd held off planning my menu for the week until I knew what the snowbirds were sending home with me before they leave for Florida tomorrow! : )

Monday - Leftover Vegetable Soup

Tuesday - See Monday

Wednesday - On Your Own night since FGG has scholastic bowl

Thursday - Grilled Fish

Friday - Pizza Night w/ a Frozen Pizza courtesy of Mom

Saturday - Breakfast for Dinner

Sunday - Undecided

For more great menu ideas, take a peek here

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Going back to the basics

It suddenly dawned on me today that in two years, FGG will be 18.

That means no more child support.

And while I've still been living below my means, with the rising costs of food, gas, etc., it's getting harder and harder to have that little extra bit of play money.

Plus, with my folks now retired and living on a fixed income, that bit of help they provided by helping buy FGG clothes needs to come to an end. At least according to my Dad, my Mom still continues to spoil FGG rotten.

The child support has definitely helped me be able to do things for FGG that I wouldn't be able to do otherwise but now it's time to start getting serious about saving money since once the child support ends, I'll be 100% on the hook for FGG's expenses like college, etc.

The hard part is trying to figure out what to cut, what to keep and how to stretch that buck until it squeals like a pig. Especially now that I've heard a rumor that my apartment complex will no longer be paying for steam heat starting sometime in 2010, which means I'll be paying higher power bills. Will come at a bad time since AmerenIP is asking for yet another rate hike. Having paid heat has been a godsend since I'm extremely intolerant to cold due to the fibro.

So I'm looking at an increase in my power bill, my insurance goes up next month due to FGG getting his license and you never know when Crapcast will increase their rates again.

Going to have to take a serious look at the budget & make some cuts. Cable/internet probably won't get cut since we both need internet for work/school stuff and the cable tv is cheap entertainment, especially for FGG the sports nut. I don't have HBO or anything like that, just a fairly basic package that allows me to have stuff like HGTV, The History Channel and AMC. We also got Netflix recently that will come in really handy this winter when we go into hibernation mode. FGG can watch stuff on his Xbox 360 and I can catch up on TV shows I miss.

I think the biggest cut will have to be in the grocery department. When I first moved in here, I shopped at Aldi a lot and saved a lot of $ that way. I think I may go back to buying and stocking up on the basics there. It's a lot easier to plan meals and cook from scratch when you actually have stuff in the pantry. Of course, that means FGG will have to get used to non brand name cereal but he'll live.

Debating on the whole buying in bulk thing and joining Sam's club. It seems like we go through stuff like toliet paper/kleenex/soap pretty quickly around here so it might be worth it to stock up on stuff like that. I never seem to manage to catch sales on those things at Target/CVS.

And I'm going to start being more creative as far as meal planning/cooking goes. I think I'm going to go back to cooking for the week on Sundays and planning dishes around leftovers. I just need to find recipes using leftovers that aren't calorie/carb filled since FGG and I both are serious about losing some weight this winter.

And I think the once a week fast food/pizza night may get down to once a month. I'm sure I can figure out how to make pizza at home and that would be a great family project for FGG & me.

I'm throwing it out to my readers, what are some of your best budget busting tips as far as meals/stocking up goes?

Monday, October 12, 2009

Happy 16th Birthday FGG


16 years ago today, a blessing came into my life. I wasn't totally prepared for it but it was prepared for me.

And while things have not always been easy, I cherish this blessing, this miracle that came into my life every single day.

I cannot believe how fast time has gone by and am amazed every day at the man FGG is becoming.

Extremely smart, devastatingly handsome with my sense of humor, FGG is going to do wonderful things in this world!

Happy, Happy Birthday my precious baby boy. And remember, it doesn't matter how much taller you are than me, I can still call you my baby!

Menu Plan Monday


Going to be a chilly week in Illinois so I think I'm going to be all about comfort foods this week.

Monday - Dinner out w/ FGG and my parents for FGG's Birthday

Tuesday - On Your Own Night since FGG has scholastic bowl

Wednesday - Grilled Mesquite Pork Chops, Garlic Mashed Potatoes

Thursday - Soup to get thin on

Friday - Leftovers

Saturday - Leftovers

Sunday - Paula Deen's Cold Night Soup

For more terrific menu ideas, please stop by Orgjunkie.com

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Swinging Saturday


Today starts the celebration of FGG's 16th birthday, which is Monday! Gosh, who can believe that I have a 16 year old?

Not much on tap for today. I may do some thrifting but I definitely need to do some housework, menu planning and organizing. FGG and the Pug Princess will be heading to my parents house to get in some grandparent time before the folks leave for Florida on the 20th.

And FGG may or may not be getting one of his birthday presents early over there. I have a feeling that the folks hooked up the PS3 that we got FGG so he would have something to do over there besides homework this weekend. : )

Later tonight I'll be meeting some friends for drinks since I finally feel over this cold enough to go out. My time for going out with friends is growing short since I tend to not go out much while the folks are in Florida since I don't like leaving FGG alone on the weekends. Time for me to start nesting again, LOL!

Actually already got a start on that since I started a new afgahn last night. Attempting a muted pink/green one this time around. This should be a test of whether or not the Lyrica is working since crocheting is hard on my hands.

As always......